When I narrate my intriguing tale of driving to people around me, I hear them saying 'I am completely impressed', 'How did you manage to do it', 'omg you are awesome'. I am an owner of a second hand Hyundai Elantra. It makes me really proud to have achieved something in such a short span of time. For all of you wondering what my story is, I bet most of you reading my article can relate to my experience.
I hail from the southern part of India. It's one of the most busiest metropolitan cities in the country. Unlike in the US where motorcyclists are not a common sight on roads, one can see motorists everywhere on the roads in India. It's humanly impossible to classify peak or off peak hours for traffic. So driving a two wheeler or a four wheeler can be really frustrating because of the traffic. Its packed with motorists, cars and heavy vehicles at any time during the day. It would take at least one hour more than the estimated time to go anywhere in the city. Owning a car is a luxury and not many families own cars.
I thought learning driving would help me someday and decided to take driving lessons. Driving test in India is not as hard as it is in the US and within a couple of days I took the test and got my license too. But I didn't have a car at home so I couldn’t put my driving skills to practice and I lost touch in driving for close to 3 years. I thought I would never get a chance to drive again but I was wrong. I came to the US a month ago and I got to know that Americans are car-loving people. I realised that it's impossible to navigate without a car. Car is a bare necessity here and you are stuck forever if you can't drive.
I have always been an independant person and it sucked big time to be dependant on my husband for every single thing. I felt the sooner I start driving here, the better it would be as even the nearest grocery or the clothing store is not at a walking distance. I was not very confident to drive at least in the initial few days. So I would sit on the passenger's seat to observe and learn all the rules of the road and the driving etiquette. I was really amazed by how organised everything was on the roads - No honking unless something went wrong, no overtaking, speed limit defined on every lane, the road signs marked on the road, right of way,etc. Driving seemed really easy then.
Finally, one fine day I mustered the courage to step in the driver's seat. My first drive was to the gym. I turned the GPS on and I didn't face any major problems on the way. For close to 20 minutes until I reached the destination, my heart beat faster than I could ever imagine. I was ecstatic for a few minutes after I reached home. I called everyone and told them about my first driving-alone experience. Over the next few days, I felt way much better as I could do my daily chores by myself. I went to the nearby clothing, grocery store, gym and drove around to a lot more places that I have always wanted to go to by myself.
My primary intent to learn driving is to go to GSU from Alpharetta. My classes were starting the week from then and I had to practice driving to Downtown at least 2 to 3 times to find out where my classes are held and more specifically for the parking spots! I was okay during the practice
sessions as I had my husband to guide and help me with the routes.
Then came the nightmare! Though I was all set to drive alone, I had butterflies in my stomach when I stepped inside the car. I wasn't even sure if I would make it to the destination nevertheless, I didn't give up. I got onto the ramp and increased the speed from 40 to 70 miles/hour and I seriously thought I would get an anxiety attack. I had million questions on my mind such as can I stay inside the teeny tiny lanes, can I maintain the minimum driving speed, can I switch lanes without panicking, can I maneuver the car to the right and take the right exit, what if I miss my exit - will I be able to find my way out, can I find a parking spot, will I be safe walking from the parking spot to my class at 10PM. I literally freaked out and started sweating profusely. It felt like driving on the longest stretch of Highway ever. Half way down the highway, to my surprise, the music from the tuner calmed me down a little bit. I started humming to the tunes and felt more relaxed. I was on I85 and the number of lanes and the roads appeared massive. I know I have been on I85 twice before but still it gave me an unfamiliar feeling. My eyes assumed that they were seeing these buildings and lanes for the first time and I wasn't even sure if I was on the right route.
I heard the GPS yelling at me to bear right and take the exit 249A. I had to see the back view mirror, the side mirror and turn around to check the blind spot too. I didn't know if I would be able to combine all these actions within 2 seconds. I turned on the right indicator but none of the other drivers seemed to care and give way. I couldn't stop the GPS keeping me aware of the number of miles the exit is away. It was like a sign of warning and my heart skipped a beat everytime it reminded me of that. A couple of seconds later, one man was kind enough to let me go to the right. I still had two more lanes to switch to on the right and I somehow managed to take the 249A exit. One of the toughest things I had done in my 1.5 hours of driving to GSU was to take the right exit. I relaxed for the second time after I took the exit but I still had a lot of work to do. I had to find a parking space. The GPS kept rerouting for all the wrong turns I took. How I wished GPS was a little faster while re-routing. It would say rerouting and it seemed like forever. I was on the left most lane and it would ask me to take right. OMG! and finally after taking a tour in the downtown because of missing all the turns it asked me to take, I found a public parking space opposite to T Deck.
I turned the engine off, I got off the car and breathed in some fresh air. I felt so much better but I was already worried about my drive back home. Putting aside those thoughts, I paid attention to go to my class as the entire GSU campus is still a labyrinth for me. I get lost everytime I have to find my way somewhere! As I walking down with a map in hand, I prayed that I should get back home safe from downtown, take three but not one exit - 251A and then 87 and then exit 11.
Now, after driving for 6 times to and fro last week for my classes, I am confident to drive on N/S400. Its still nerve wracking to take the right exit and find a parking spot. I didn't want to take chances to find any other parking spots for the first few days. Until now, I have parked in the same public parking space opposite to T deck even though I got my parking permit and Budget card from the Student Centre last week. Next week, I am planning to park in one of the GSU decks and I am hoping that I will be able to find the entrance for these decks as the GPS always takes me to the destination that in downtown that has a detour sign or a road in construction sign.
While I have been talking about how daunting my driving experience has been so far, I would definitely miss something out if I forget to mention the fact that I am actually starting to enjoy the drive on the highway to GSU. I am sure in days to come, I will be an expert to drive anywhere in a maze like Downtown or the longest stretch of a dense wood forest or a highway!